Exploring the context of a woman's orgasm concerns and employing strategies to achieve orgasm is important if it is important to her.

“I never accept the answer at face value I'm I'm big on like finding out more is like have they just given up or they really don't want worry about it right and there are some people in the field who feel like saying well not having an oralism can be normal for some women so you know I avoid that like is it not having an orgasm normal I I sort of say okay well like is this important for you to have this and find out about it and let's learn techniques or strategies for seeing if you can reach this experience right”