Enmeshment, a root of trauma, involves boundary violations where a child may be placed in an age-inappropriate role, such as becoming a parent's confidant.

“in meshman that's a wounding experience where you've got a boundary violation right so that can happen within the Spirit of what we call emotional incest where a child is put in an inappro an age inappropriate position maybe the child becomes best friend counselor and Confidant for Mom or Dad”