Peter Attia· MD
the idea of radical acceptance that that that something wasn't good or bad probably happened I mean after Nate died I mean I don't think I think I knew of it in practice but when everything's good seems good it's hard to you're like oh yeah good luck to those people that you know have a sick kid or whatever I hope they just accept what is um and I always thought that before I really experienced it that it is what it is was an annoying statement and it was kind of just like a throwaway like oh well it is it it life so just accept it and now I'm like no it's beautiful it is what it is how wonderful is that like C can you just be with whatever without doesn't mean it won't feel hard it doesn't mean it's not miserable it just means it is exactly what you are going through and the resistance to that and the wishing it was different is what kills you