Peter Attia· MD
Because I've got this thing I'm ready to present Perhaps I've presented it 10 times and I've got it written out or I've at least got bullet points So I feel good about no problem But you start telling me how you felt and what came up for you Peter when I was talking about my dad and what he did I don't know how that's going to feel for me right And so in so many times almost 100% of the time within the spirit of not giving feedback to feedback is feedback is almost like equates to I'm going to throw some love on you Okay Like maybe I didn't have anything in the world in common with you but when you talked about that thing at 8 years old I felt myself getting angry And that's how somebody lets somebody know I was listening to you I was there with you Right And 90% of the time at least when and it's so hard for folks to not give to just sit there and let somebody share from the heart and to not give feedback to that feedback right And but so many times it's like well but my brother had it my brother had it a lot worse It just and it's like and and I just throw my hands down and I'm like it happens almost That's why we do it It's like somebody throws some love on you and it's almost like out of my shame and my woundedness I need to remind you that I'm a piece of And it happens so often