The headline is broadly defensible, but the qualifications matter. Effect sizes vary by population, the strongest claims rest on shorter trials, and credible voices push back on how it's typically framed.
if you have secure attachment it means you think you're kind of valuable you're worthy and your needs are worth being met if you had secure attachment with your parents and your parents treated you like you were worthy and they met your needs consistently then when you're an adult it's easier to think that i'm worthy and i'm going to meet my needs because i'm worthy of having my needs met
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if you have secure attachment with your parents and your parents treated you like you were worthy and they met your needs consistently then when you're an adult it's easier to think that i'm worthy and i'm going to meet my needs because i'm worthy of having my needs met
what you're really doing is learning how to hold the pain any pain with this kind supportive stance and so when you do that there's actually some research showing you can get what they call earned secure attachment as an adult you can actually learn to have a secure attachment schema through self-compassion maybe your parents didn't meet your needs consistently but you can learn to meet your own needs consistently when you're frightened or you need help or you need support in some way