Anger outbursts in individuals without psychopathology are typically followed by shame, creating a cycle where shame leads to grandiosity, which fuels more anger.

“but it's immediately followed by quite a bit of shame if you're any reasonably sane human being which is to say you do not have true psychopathology you have to feel shame after these outbursts there's no way that knight isn't screaming at his players every single day and shoving toilet paper with [ __ ] in their face and leaving the locker room thinking i'm a great guy no he's feeling ashamed of what he's doing and as a result of that he's beating himself up more and it's creating this greater and greater vicious cycle of needing greater grandiosity to overcome that shame which leads to more outbursts of anger”