Practicing instantaneous generosity is more effective than deferring such actions.

“this idea of being instantaneously generous um and not sort of punting generosity until another day uh and this is you know again I think I think you'll enjoy uh reading die with zero uh and that's really that was yeah certainly one of the three most important things I took away from that book is we have all these plans to do things tomorrow it's like God this person has been so great in my life and I can't wait to show them in 10 years how great they've been it's like what the hell does that how about you show them today uh you know how much they've mattered to you”