people that are even out from the outside it's obvious that they're not taking care of themselves and again the patterns here are many it could be just a straight up across the board I don't sleep well I don't exercise I don't eat well I drink to excess and you know in those situations I guess it's it becomes pretty obvious to someone on the outside right hey there's there's something going on here that you you're you're you're acting in a manner that is harmful to yourself