Making life arbitrarily more difficult through hard choices now is a strategy that should be prioritized, balanced with present enjoyment.

“if you're too far focused on future and you're not present we have all kinds of psychological disorders for those names right you're not fun to be around you're going to have all these other ones at the inverse if you're only paying attention to now which is clear detriment down the rine so playing that game of saying I'm going to make a bunch of hard choices now to make my life arbitrarily more difficult is probably where we should hedge most of our stuff but we can't always be in a place of I'm not going to do anything right now to bring joy people are not going to live very long very happy that life so it's a balancing act”