When planning a car trip, guessing the other person's desired route and allowing them to correct you leads to a better collaborative outcome.

“So if we're getting ready to, let's say you and I are going to take a car trip to San Francisco from here, and I'm going to say, all right, so my guess is you want to take the most direct route because you hate wasting time. And you're probably going to say to, No, no, I want to go up the Pacific Coast highway because this beautiful stretch of country, I realize it's going to be a waste of time if we go up the Pacific Coast because we got to jump off it at some point. But I really want to see the scenery, have ... I've taken a guess on what you want and you're going to come back real quick and correct me.”