The evidence is convergent. Multiple independent sources reach the same conclusion, the underlying mechanism is well-characterized, and even the field's most cautious voices treat it as worth doing.
The first narrative is The Narrative of being unwanted fundamentally unwanted not just because born not wanted but unwanted unloved uncared for undervalued unappreciated unseen un and something after And I can bring this from my childhood I can bring this from the way that I grew up I can bring this from the way that other ks in my classroom never ever looked at me
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the first narrative is The Narrative of being unwanted fundamentally unwanted not just because born not wanted but unwanted unloved uncared for undervalued unappreciated unseen un and something after
The Narrative of being unwanted fundamentally unwanted not just because born not wanted but unwanted unloved uncared for undervalued unappreciated unseen un and something after and I can bring this from my childhood I can bring this from the way that I grew up I can bring this from the way that other kids in my classroom never ever looked at me there's load loads of places where this emerged and then grew inside of me and becomes the lens through which I see myself in the world
if I talk with you now and in my mind I have this notion he doesn't really care about me he doesn't really value me he's just doing this to be nice he would have stopped this an hour ago if he could I have no idea I think he disagrees with everything he has said he really doesn't think I have anything interesting to say he's so sorry he invited me I mean yeah this instantly fills my belly so this is not just a thought this is not just a feeling this is also an embodied experience so I'm in my in my belly now I have this this knot you know and H how am I going to you know what am I going to do now and I just feel so bad about myself and I don't know how to talk to him and you know and then it's going to influence how I'm going to talk next and now I'm going to start to talk all too long and too much because because I'm actually feeling unsure and my insecurity makes me talk more and I'm rambling and I'm all over the place and he's even more now thinking that I am not interesting and you know I mean this is all this could all go into my head right now you know my narrative that one phrase becomes my experience and my experience becomes the motor for my behavior and the motor for my behavior is going to land me probably in a place that is often the exact opposite place of where I actually want to go