Peter Attia· MD
the fact that it's referred to as radical acceptance versus acceptance i i think kind of highlights that that it — it's not easy it's not it's not a decision it's not like you would sit down with my wife's friend have this discussion once say what's the alternative i know this is awful but in the long run this is going to produce more happiness for you and your family and for her to say yep i think that's right thanks like it's — no it's to your point every minute of every day for god knows how many months and years you're confronted with that and if i speak for myself there's a lot of — what's the what's the term — uh — backsliding right there's a lot of no i