Peter Attia· MD
so the techniques for learning about orgasm with a sex therapist would might be for example directed masturbation it's kind of some of what we're talking about but they might instruct them more these sex therapists these days it's not like if you saw again Masters and Johnson they don't go behind a room with a glass window and like have sex in front of the sex therapist there are surrogates that's not what I'm talking about um but they'll discuss very very you know in more detail about technique and they'll give home assignments there may be advice or guidance about positioning so they might bring the partner in and discuss positioning they might use um something called sense8 Focus so a lot of times people in addition to that we didn't kind of get into this yet but people develop a lot of anxiety right so and that makes the problem worse they be develop like what's called spectatoring and performance anxiety so there's a technique that works for any sexual dysfunction but can be used here where you um gradually introduce levels of sexual and partner communication and you start with very non-threatening things like you sit you hold hands you hug and a couple is given gradual um especially when people become very anxious that like am I going to have an orgasm what's going to happen so the sense8 focus prescription can be done by sex therapists and