It is normal and desirable for children to express disappointment when a desired activity is canceled, indicating healthy emotional development.

“when I say to my kid sorry we can't go to Bobby's house I wouldn't even want it's not normal for my kid to be like oh no problem because like I would I'm just picturing my 25-year-old like trying to get a job and being like Mom oh I didn't get it and then he's like no problem I'm like that's kind of weird like really like that's weird like I'd want you to be disappointed and so what I want my kid to be able to do is to be like I don't know what's the best to gets like oh man I was really looking forward to that that's like ultimate maturity”