I feel like what happens under conditions of REM deprivation or sleep deprivation that is sleep deprivation but you've beautifully described how it's REM deprivation in particular that can do this that the hinge becomes loose but the hinge doesn't become loose toward us becoming more parasympathetic and relax there's an asymmetry there it's as if the Seesaw now wants to flop to sympathetic activation until we're so exhausted that we just disappear into sleep