my bedtime is 8:30 p.m. when 7:30 arrives nighttime Brian is now in charge so when 7:31 happens and a thought comes into my brain you forgot to contact so and so today I can say thank you work Brian we have all day tomorrow to address this need and that really helps me call myself to say you know what I'm not in work mode I don't own that responsibility if you want you can write it down so you don't forget about it but it's really important to say that you are now in sleep mode and you're doing the things to prepare yourself for that